Our Charity News, Views, Advice and Personal Stories on the Issue of Domestic Abuse and coercive control

Blog Index

ADHD - Is it you, me or ADHD?

Are you falling through the gaps - the impact of menopause on mid-life women experiencing DA

Break the silence - Report it, Support it, Fund it.

Check in with your team - 1:6 men will experience DA in their lifetimes

Children are victims too - Recognising Children as Victims of Domestic Abuse

Child/Adolescent on Parent Abuse

Claire’s Law - the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme

Disability and Partner Abuse

Domestic abuse is everybody’s business - the social and economic costs

Economic and Financial Abuse

Elder abuse - Understanding elder abuse

Gaslighting - How to spot the signs

Have you been love bombed?

Home is supposed to be a safe space - restraining orders, financial abuse and the law

Leave without a fuss

Love shouldn’t hurt

Men are victims of domestic abuse too

Mothers Day - We hope it’s a happy Mothers Day

Pet abuse

Post separation abuse - Mortgages and Manipulation

Reproductive coercion - Forced pregnancy, abortion, birth control

Rural abuse

Sexual harassment in universities - Walking the halls alone

Sharing is not always caring - intimate image sharing

Stalking and Harassment - From obsession to control, understanding the danger

Tech abuse and empowerment

Toxic relationships - We repeat what we don’t repair

Understanding VAWG

Victim blaming - its shattering effects

Christine Roach Christine Roach

Escape from the Merry go round

A victim’s story of life on the merry go round of a coercive, controlling and violent relationship and why it is so difficult to escape.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Domestic abuse in rural areas

Domestic abuse in rural areas lasts on average 25% longer than in urban areas. Read some key findings and some victims’ stories.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Launch of Domestic Abuse Drop In Service in Watford

JKC Lawyers and Hertfordshire Domestic Abuse Helpline, working in partnership, are delighted to announce the launch of a domestic abuse drop in service at JKC’s offices in Watford with effect from 22 January 2020.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Operation Encompass

Find out about Operation Encompass and how it can help children who have witnessed domestic abuse.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Rosie Duffield's story

Rosie Duffield MP talks about her own experience of domestic abuse including controlling behaviour.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Operation Oak

An Officer from Herts Constabulary’s Domestic Abuse Investigation Support Unit talks about what his work involves.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Stalking and why it's so serious

In the second of our blogs the DCI in charge of the DAISU (Domestic Abuse Investigation and Safeguarding Unit), Herts Constabulary writes about the seriousness of stalking.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Stalking - case studies

DCI Stuart Cheek from Herts DAISU writes about two case studies on stalking which sadly ended in the deaths of two girls.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Tech abuse and survivor stories

Modern technology gives abusers ever-growing ways to control, isolate, humiliate and dominate women using the tools of everyday life . Whether you’re a survivor or a professional, Refuge’s resources will equip you to understand how to use different devices, apps, websites and networks safely.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Modern Slavery

Reported cases of people being exploited, forced into modern forms of slavery and trafficked into the UK are on the increase. We feature this blog because of the overlap between modern slavery and domestic abuse. Both men and women can be victims of domestic abuse, coercive and controlling behaviour and sexual exploitation. Our thanks go to the Herts Modern Slavery Partnership for this blog.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Legal guidance - Non-molestation orders, DVPOs, DVPNs

Sometimes it can be difficult to know what options are available to you legally when you are in an abusive relationship. This is a quick run through of some of those options. We would always recommend that you obtain professional advice. The Helpline can give you the phone numbers of legal firms in Herts that can help you.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

There's no excuse for elder abuse

No matter how much you may love or care for the person who is hurting you, there is no excuse for Elder Abuse.  You have the right to live in safety, free from abuse and neglect. Domestic Abuse of Older people is acknowledged to be under reported. In this guide on Elder Abuse we highlight how to spot the signs you are victim and how to get help.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Disability and Partner Abuse

This article talks through why disabled people can become more vulnerable to partner abuse, barriers to seeking support and advice on how to support a friend or relative you are concerned about

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Domestic abuse shelters

If you are thinking of leaving an abusive relationship the thought of leaving your home to stay in a shelter or refuge can be concerning. In this article, we explain what domestic abuse shelters are and the invaluable services they provide for victims of abuse.

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