Our Charity News, Views, Advice and Personal Stories on the Issue of Domestic Abuse and coercive control
Blog Index
ADHD - Is it you, me or ADHD?
Are you falling through the gaps - the impact of menopause on mid-life women experiencing DA
Break the silence - Report it, Support it, Fund it.
Check in with your team - 1:6 men will experience DA in their lifetimes
Children are victims too - Recognising Children as Victims of Domestic Abuse
Child/Adolescent on Parent Abuse
Claire’s Law - the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme
Domestic abuse is everybody’s business - the social and economic costs
Elder abuse - Understanding elder abuse
Gaslighting - How to spot the signs
Home is supposed to be a safe space - restraining orders, financial abuse and the law
Men are victims of domestic abuse too
Mothers Day - We hope it’s a happy Mothers Day
Post separation abuse - Mortgages and Manipulation
Reproductive coercion - Forced pregnancy, abortion, birth control
Sexual harassment in universities - Walking the halls alone
Sharing is not always caring - intimate image sharing
Stalking and Harassment - From obsession to control, understanding the danger
Toxic relationships - We repeat what we don’t repair
Victim blaming - its shattering effects
Are You Offside or Onside?
Football lasts 90 minutes. Abuse and fear can last much longer. We all have a part to play in tackling VAWG. Together, we can create a culture where everyone feels safe before, during and after the final whistle.
Gaslighting: how to spot the signs
In this article, we highlight how to recognise the signs that someone may be in an abusive relationship and experiencing gaslighting.
Child/Adolescent on Parent Abuse (CAPA)
Do you think you are experiencing CAPA? This blog post will help you to identify challenges, the impact on families and explore case studies.
Disability and Partner Abuse
There are some very specific challenges for people with disabilities who are suffering domestic abuse. This article talks through why people can become more vulnerable to partner abuse, barriers to seeking support and advice on how to support a friend or relative you are concerned about.
Economic and Financial Abuse
Economic abuse can include exerting control over income, spending, bank accounts, bills and borrowing. It can also include controlling access to and use of things like transport and technology, which allow us to work and stay connected, as well as property and daily essentials like food and clothing. It can include destroying items and refusing to contribute to household costs.
Domestic Abuse in Rural Areas
When we think of Hertfordshire we think of our bustling towns but we also have a large number of fairly remote villages or even settlements of a few houses where screams are rarely heard.
Men are victims of domestic abuse too
1-6 men experience domestic abuse. Find out what the additional barriers are for men suffering.
Understanding VAWG
Violence Against Women and Girls (VAWG) is a pervasive issue that affects countless lives globally. In the United Kingdom, this form of violence has reached alarming levels, with reports and statistics painting a grim picture of its prevalence and impact.
Children are victims too
We know that children who grow up around domestic abuse can carry those experiences into adulthood unless they get the understanding and support they need to heal. Raising awareness, offering early education, and showing young people that there is help available can change lives.
If you’re worried about a child or about how domestic abuse is affecting your family, you can always contact the Hertfordshire Domestic Abuse Helpline. We’ll listen, offer guidance, and help you find the right support.
Break the Silence – Report It, Support It, Fund It!
Let’s raise the profile on Domestic Abuse and create a community that makes a difference to those in need .
📲 Report It 🤝 Support It 💰 Fund It
Stalking & Harassment: From Obsession to Control – Understanding the Danger
Stalking is more than being followed. It includes repeated, unwanted contact or behaviour that causes someone to feel scared, anxious, or threatened. As new legislation is being proposed to strengthen how stalking is handled in the UK, now is the time to better understand how stalking affects victims and how we can all respond better.
Post separation abuse, Mortgages and manipulation.
We have teamed up with Koto Financial Services for this blog post, to help raise awareness of the growing problem of financial and economic abuse, an often overlooked but devastating form of manipulation that can continue long after a relationship has ended.
Leave without a fuss
It's never too early or too late to leave an abusive partner. Your safety is paramount, so if you decide to leave, it's best to plan your exit carefully. Read this blog post for some guidance on putting a safety plan in place.
Unveiling Reproductive Coercion: A Silent Perpetrator within Domestic Abuse
Unveiling Reproductive Coercion: A Silent Perpetrator within Domestic Abuse
Shattering the chains of victim blaming
The harmful practice of victim blaming runs deeply through societal attitudes, causing extra suffering to survivors, particularly women and girls who bear the brunt of this never-ending form of violence.