Our Charity News, Views, Advice and Personal Stories on the Issue of Domestic Abuse and coercive control

Blog Index

ADHD - Is it you, me or ADHD?

Are you falling through the gaps - the impact of menopause on mid-life women experiencing DA

Break the silence - Report it, Support it, Fund it.

Check in with your team - 1:6 men will experience DA in their lifetimes

Children are victims too - Recognising Children as Victims of Domestic Abuse

Child/Adolescent on Parent Abuse

Claire’s Law - the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme

Disability and Partner Abuse

Domestic abuse is everybody’s business - the social and economic costs

Economic and Financial Abuse

Elder abuse - Understanding elder abuse

Gaslighting - How to spot the signs

Have you been love bombed?

Home is supposed to be a safe space - restraining orders, financial abuse and the law

Leave without a fuss

Love shouldn’t hurt

Men are victims of domestic abuse too

Mothers Day - We hope it’s a happy Mothers Day

Pet abuse

Post separation abuse - Mortgages and Manipulation

Reproductive coercion - Forced pregnancy, abortion, birth control

Rural abuse

Sexual harassment in universities - Walking the halls alone

Sharing is not always caring - intimate image sharing

Stalking and Harassment - From obsession to control, understanding the danger

Tech abuse and empowerment

Toxic relationships - We repeat what we don’t repair

Understanding VAWG

Victim blaming - its shattering effects

Christine Roach Christine Roach

Understanding VAWG

Violence Against Women and Girls (VAWG) is a pervasive issue that affects countless lives globally. In the United Kingdom, this form of violence has reached alarming levels, with reports and statistics painting a grim picture of its prevalence and impact.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Children are victims too

We know that children who grow up around domestic abuse can carry those experiences into adulthood unless they get the understanding and support they need to heal. Raising awareness, offering early education, and showing young people that there is help available can change lives.

If you’re worried about a child or about how domestic abuse is affecting your family, you can always contact the Hertfordshire Domestic Abuse Helpline. We’ll listen, offer guidance, and help you find the right support.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Stalking & Harassment: From Obsession to Control – Understanding the Danger

Stalking is more than being followed. It includes repeated, unwanted contact or behaviour that causes someone to feel scared, anxious, or threatened. As new legislation is being proposed to strengthen how stalking is handled in the UK, now is the time to better understand how stalking affects victims and how we can all respond better.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Post separation abuse, Mortgages and manipulation.

We have teamed up with Koto Financial Services for this blog post, to help raise awareness of the growing problem of financial and economic abuse, an often overlooked but devastating form of manipulation that can continue long after a relationship has ended.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Leave without a fuss

It's never too early or too late to leave an abusive partner. Your safety is paramount, so if you decide to leave, it's best to plan your exit carefully. Read this blog post for some guidance on putting a safety plan in place.

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Christine Roach Christine Roach

Shattering the chains of victim blaming

The harmful practice of victim blaming runs deeply through societal attitudes, causing extra suffering to survivors, particularly women and girls who bear the brunt of this never-ending form of violence.

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